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Who is Ah Ting??? :Þ
♥Someone who lives in a sunny island called Singapore
♥Has a love-hate relationship with Singapore
♥D.O.B is on 8 November (The year shall be kept a secret)
♥Is happily married and blessed

Hobbies
♥Sleeping
♥Singing
♥Shopping
♥Scrapbooking

All the "S"es...

Favourites
♥Book = HARRY POTTER!!!
♥Colour = Purple
♥Band = B.E.Y.O.N.D

If you have the same hobby/like the same band as me, do add me in msn. Thanks!!!

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V29 :may our hearts, burn on

   

I totally forget
Thursday, May 10, 2012

The verdict has been out buttttt SO WHAT?
Thursday, April 1, 2010

Okie... the verdict is out and the former Romanian charge d'affaires, Dr Silviu Ionescu is convicted. (What took them so long? Isn't it obvious that the fat, ugly bastard is the culprit himself?)

http://www.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Singapore/Story/A1Story20100401-207881.html

BUT....

So what????

The fucking fat Romanian is still out at large, at the comfort of his own home in Romania, enjoying his usual cups of drinks and maybe a few sessions of fucks (that is if he can stand).

I thought nothing could be as worse as those bloody hit-and-run drivers liao. Boy was I so wrong.

This is far worse. Hit-and-run PLUS spun a whole load of lies just to get around with the laws. Knowing that he couldn't be charged cos of his identity as the Romanian charge d'affaires, he publicly criticized and defamed Singapore for accusing him for all the wrongdoings.

Can like that one meh???

Verdict is out that he is the driver behind the wheels for the accident. AND???? No more liao ar???

How about the lies he spun by making a fake police report of his stolen car???
How about the time wasted for the police to investigate his stupid stolen car???
How about the defamation he made against Singapore???
How come our PM and MM never sue him until bankrupt???
How about the life lost?
How about the fat ass being unrepentent for all the things that had happened?

Huh huh huh...

One thing in life you have to learn, my friends.

Next time if you suay suay kenna an accident, DON'T let it be someone of high social status. Abo you will die with your eyes open.

NO JUSTICE AT ALL!

Blogging

Yayaya.... I know I've gone missing again.

I almost forgot I have a blog.... hahahaha...

Ever since my parents moved to their new flat, I have been busy all day long. So busy until no time to scrap also la... my things are left in a corner to rot.

No time to scrap, no time to blog. Hmmm... I got to manage my time better next time. Or maybe....... I'm just too popular with my friends le... I simply do not have the time to rest! Ha... too many activities going on and too little time.

My April weekends are totally PACKED btw... so yoohooo.... friends, you don't have to jio me out this April weekends le...

Okie... I shall try to blog more often... starting from..... hmmmm.... next week!

Combined income of $3K per month able to afford a 4-room flat?
Monday, January 18, 2010

This is one of the questions that keeps popping out in my mind recently...

Never mind my long absence in blogging for I guess you all know the reason(s) for my disappearance... What??? You dunno... hiyahz... need me to spell out so speifically anot??? Okie la... the reason is one word.... LAZY!

Back to the topic.

Can a young couple earning a combined income of $3,000 per month REALLY able to afford a 4-room flat as claimed by Mr M??? Just what makes the Mr M feels that Singaporeans can afford to pay for the rocket-high priced HDB small flats???

To find out if Mr M is correct, I have decided to do a rough calculation on this pair of fictitious couple who earns an combined income of $3,000 per month and YESH... I'm quite bo liao also...

See below

Out of the $3,000, 20% goes to their CPF accounts. That's $600 ($300 each) and this couple is left with only $2,400 cash per month.

Their employers make contribution of 14.5% of the wages to their CPF accounts and that's $435 ($217.50 each). In another words, each of them makes a total contribution of $517.50 to their CPF accounts.

A lot??? Think again! Not the full amount goes into the Ordinary Account (OA). The ratio of contribution distributed to the Ordinary, Special and Medisave Account is 0.6667:0.1449:0.1884 respectively.

In another words, the exact amount that goes into the OA is only $345.015 each per month. (I'm only talking about OA balances here cos we can only use the OA for housing instalments.)

To make my illustrations easier, I shall omit those nitty gritty details and just assume this couple has been working for quite some time and has an accumulated OA savings of $30,000. Say the flat they wish to own costs S$250,000. After deducting $30,000 from their OA, they are still short of $220,000. So bo bian, get a loan from HDB. Nothing comes for free. You need a loan, you pay for the interest. HDB interest is pegged at 0.1% above the OA interest which is 2.6% per annum.

Now, we assume this couple opts for the maximum loan period which is 30 years. For a loan of $220,000 at an interest rate of 2.6% for a period of 30 years, how much is the monthly instalment leh??? Actually, the answer is.....













I DUNNO LAH!
hahahaha












As HDB uses the reducing balance method to charge interest, it is very tedious for me to explain exactly how much this couple has to pay per month. So let's do it the simple way. Anyway, this example is just a guide... dun so gek gao la...

Using simple Mathematics, this couple will roughly have to pay $1,087.77 per month of their housing instalment.

How do I derive this amount???

$220,000 * 2.6% per annum/360 months = S$1,087.77

This amount exceeds their total OA contribution ($690.03 in total) by $397.74. In another words, this couple will have to fork out a cash amount of $397.74 per month to service their housing instalments.

Back to the remaining of their wages after deducting the CPF contributions. If you scroll back, this couple has $2,400 left. If you deduct the cash amount they need to use for their housing instalments, they are still left with $2,002.26.

Now come the expenses of the couple.

Say this couple doesn't have a car (cannot afford la... got so many ERPs), they will need to take public transport. Given the ulu pandan place they live in (excuse me hor... $250,000 flat u want to live in Central area meh??? Dream on lo... of course ulu pandan la), I'll say their transportation fee per month will probably be around $150 each. So that's another $300 gone from their income - left $1,702.26.

How about food??? Young couples don't cook so they are probably going to stuff themselves with outside food. Say one day each of them spend $10 on food and drinks (breakfast, lunch and dinner) so total expenditure on food will be around $600 per month. Their income is now left with $1,102.26.

Utility bills, town council bills, mobile phone bills, internet broadband bills and whatever kind of bills leh??? Somemore the Government is going to increase the SP service bills yet again leh... Say all these bills add up to $200 per month la... so income left - $902.26.

Parents leh??? They brought them up with their blood and sweat. Now that they are all grown up, it's time for them to repay their parents by giving them some monies every month right? Say each of them gives $200 to their own parents per month (sibei little). Their total income is now left with only $502.26.

I have not included insurance policies, endowment plans, blah blah blah in yet okie. Let's just say this fictitious couple has none of these la... so all that are listed above are the expenses of an ordinary young couple.

If you do your own calculations, all the amount that I've quoted are the MINIMUM a young couple can spend... which means to say $502.26 is actually the MAXIMUM this couple can save per month.

Note: The price of the flat in this example is only S$250,000 hor... if a couple with $3K combined monthly income wants to purchase a flat of higher value, it means total savings is going to be lesser than $500.

End of example. Thank you very much.


Question Time


Now I'm throwing this question back to Mr M.

$500 a lot???

HELL NO!




What about renovation??? What about furniture??? What about wedding cost??? Huh huh huh???

Dun tell me can use savings la... how much can a young couple who earns a combined income of $3,000 per month save???

I've been through this and done that. Ah Long & I have been saving diligently shortly after we date and yet our savings wasn't enough for our renovation + furniture + wedding add together okie... Ah Long had to fork out some of his personal savings lo hor...

Note: We can save A LOT. Still, it wasn't enough.

So the banks come up with things like renovation loan, bridging loan, etc to help these people in need to tide over... BUT it comes with a price too.... high interest payment.

If and only if this ficticious couple took up a renovation loan, do you still think they can save $500 per month?? How much of that goes to the repayment??? Huh Huh Huh...

Then suay suay bo suay pregnant how??? Does the million-dollar wage minister Mr M know how much it cost to see a gynae now??? Okie la... don't talk about private hospital like Gleneagles or Thomson la... just KK Hospital la... someone please tell him how much is the hospital fee right now hor.

In addition, please also highlight to him the cost of milk powder, diapers, baby doctor's fee (polyclinic one), infant/child care centre, etc and etc.

If both parents go out to work, who look after the baby??? Parents??? In laws??? Childcare centre??? Nannies???

Whatever option it is... does it all concern money???

So here comes the question again....


$3,000 enough??? Wo *pui*

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To my dear Government

"You are the ones who advise us to save for rainy days but you are also the ones who conveniently "soot" our hard-earned money away.

Yes, $3000 may be enough to buy the couple a flat but they are going to live in misery. Do you know that??? A 4-room flat is so unachievable for young couples now.... and u still want to up your birth rate???

Want to have the best of both worlds huh??? U TKK la...

No flat means no babies la... simple logic wat... who wants to have babies and stay with parents or in-laws de (stay NEAR parents or in-laws yes... but stay WITH parents or in-laws needs consideration)... Plus it's going to be so cramp la cos the flat built by HDB is getting smaller and smaller every decade... I dun want to go on with the small rooms that only allow us to put one queen size bed and wardrobe blah blah blah....

So.....

STOP insisting that an couple earning S$3,000 can afford a 4-room flat! Whoever scholar that helped you craft your speech about this must have failed his/her Mathematics terribly.

Luckily lao niang marry young. Got my prime location flat cheap cheap... well... not exactly cheap but definitely cheaper than what it is now. What a HUGE inflation we have in Singapore.

Well, I'm not saying Singapore is no good or blah blah blah. If you have been following my blog, you should have read it somewhere at the top left hand corner of my blog page that I have a love-hate relationship with Singapore.

I love Singapore for its everything but I hate the fact that we Singaporeans allow too much power to a monopoly PAP. Not healthy... super not healthy... but what can we do???



Absolutely nothing!!!


I dunno if it's bcos we are all afraid to do anything or bcos we are simply the infamous BO CHAP society.

BUT.... whatever la... we can't do anything to this system and that's a fact every Singaporean knows.

Ting's prediction for future Singapore

"You all know banks got differentiate between normal customers and prestige customers one right?? Those with networth sibei high one will be the prestige ones la... then got personal relationship manager managing their accounts blah blah blah la...

I tell you... my prediction of Singapore 20 years down the road will be something like this lo...

Only the rich can stay in Singapore. Networth less than how much how much (I dunno la... the inflation Singapore is experiencing right now + I'm not an economist... how the hell I know) cannot stay in Singapore...

If you do not have that kind of required assets YET do not want to renounce your Singapore citizenship , the Gahmen will probably transport this group of people to neighbouring islands owned by Singapore lo... u know... those small small useless islands... Pulau Ubin I think cannot cos they got big plans for that place."

Hiyah... I think that's it about our crazy property prices la... although I can go on forever.

*Love ya Singapore*

Sibei unpleasant experience...
Monday, October 26, 2009

Before I go further to describe my unpleasant experience with this pair of mother and daughter, I have an announcement to make. I dun want to make another entry just for it.

This is with regards to the Miss or Mr or whatever shit person who wrote nonsense in my blog several months ago.

Albeit me knowing the name of the company this person works in, I shall be of Buddha heart and not pursue this case anymore.

Please trust me. I do not want to let this person off that easily BUT I have my own reasons for doing so. So please don't come running to me and ask... "So how ar... caught that fellow yet?".. hahaha... I have no answers.

However, if YOU (the muthafarker) want to play again, please trust me that I will appear right at your office's doorstep and meet up with your Legal Department officer, Miss Tina... uh huh... your legal officer's name is Tina right??? So dun go away thinking I'm just bluffing my way through...

END OF ANNOUNCEMENT

And another thing before I start, please be reminded that
  • This blog entry is full of vulgarities, so if you can't take it, please leave now.

  • Although I have first class honors in vulgarities, I am generally a very nice person... actually I'm a SUPER nice person la... just dun provoke me.
  • This entry is created because I am pissed. When I'm pissed, I type non-stop so this entry is generally long... in fact, super long... if you are rushing for time, I advise you not to start.

  • Lastly, please be reminded that I am not like this all the time... haha... really I'm not!!!
Okie enough announcement made.

Now the start of my unpleasant experience at Expo Hall 5 last Sunday.

If you have been reading the newspapers, you would know that Audio House held an electronics fair at Expo last weekend.

To attract ppl there, this Audio House came up with $10 sale on fan and rice cooker and whatever la. On the advertisement, it was mentioned that there were only 200 sets each day and that the consumers would have to cut out the pieces of coupons found on the newspaper itself.

My mother thought it was cheap and brought the newspaper for me to read. Since my parents are going to move to their new house soon, I thought it was a good time for us to get some cheap deals. So I asked Ah Long to drive us there.

I tell you... BIG MISTAKE!!!

I din know this Audio House so 'kiam' one la... They really opened the door of the Hall at 11am sharp. Plus they were so disorganised. There was no Qs and everybody was like vultures waiting for "food" inside the Hall.

We reached there like 5 mins before 11 and we were like standing at one corner. Fortunately or unfortunately for us, the staff started to open the door to the Hall near our way. In fact, the door was like 10 steps away from us nia.

Guess what happened next???

Those "vultures" started to push their ways in. My mother was pushing DiDi Ashton in his pram and I was standing beside her BEFORE the door opened. The moment the door opened, I was being pushed into the Hall by some stupid people and I totally lost sight of my mother.

CCB!!! I was damn worked up and started screaming at the top of my voice telling those people to stop fucking push la. Of course no one gave a damn.

When I was pushed in, I saw Ah Long standing at the entrance carrying QiQi. The moment I saw him, I told him my mother was still outside with DiDi. He quickly pushed Qi to me and ran out. He pushed all those ppl away with all his might and pulled DiDi's pram in, together with my mother.

After he came in, he shouted at everyone there and challenged those who tried to push their way in. For a while, time seemed to come to a standstill.

*If you ask me what do I like about Ah Long... neh... this is one thing I like about him lo. His beng-ness. This is what I called MAN okie. I've seen man not behaving like a man even in front of their girlfriend or wife. If I was his partner, I would be damn paiseh la. Own bf/husband so chicken. How to protect u in future???*

Back to those 'vultures'. These people ar... damn fucking brainless. For goodness sake, there's a baby there. Can't they just let my mother in first???

Stop telling me that I should not bring my baby there in the first place okie. How the hell was I supposed to know that the doors weren't opened by the time we reached there and that we were going to be caught in situations like this???

I will never bring my kids out to Chinatown during CNY or to Marina during National Day celebration or firework season because I KNOW there is bound to be a crowd there. A crowd meaning u can hardly take a step in those kind of situations. BUT for fairs at Expo, I see no reasons for me NOT to go there. I have been to countless fairs at Expo and I do not have experiences like this before.

Just blame it on the organisers and those barbarians.

Okie... never mind about the barbarians. What's important was that my mother and baby came in unhurt.

We went to the booth and started queuing for the $10 fan and rice cooker. Halfway into the queuing, this Malay uncle who was like 50m ahead of us started shouting. He was trying to inform those in queue to get the coupons from the staff outside Expo first before queuing. Without that coupon, we could not buy those items listed in the newspapers. The coupons found in the newspaper were not valid for purchases.

Alamak... what crap was that man!!!

Upon hearing that, I approached that uncle who was very kind to explain everything to me. Then I told my mother to continue queuing while I go outside to exchange for the real thing.

Wah!!! The queue outside was damn damn damn long la... It went all the way to the outside of Hall 4. Luckily, the queue was quite fast. I din manage to get the coupon for the fan and rice cooker la... got the coupon for the stupid $5 iron instead.

I went back and saw my mother approaching the counter real soon (another 20 to 30 ppl in front of her only). I know my mother is someone who is easily bullied by others so I asked her to wait for me outside while I queued for her.

Now here comes the trigger point that sparks the whole quarrel episode.

While I was in the queue, 2 young girls behind me were talking in sarcasm. They kept insulting the people around them, saying how this aunty and that uncle cut their queue, how these ppl so damn cheapstake like never see those products before (forgetting they themselves were queuing up for the same thing as well) and the worst part, commenting how smelly the ppl around them were.

Then one of them said out loud that if her friends were here, they were sure to beat the shit out of these ppl.

I tell you... I hear liao I sibei tulan.

What the fuck was she trying to protray??? Chao ah lian image??? Got chao ah lian and ah beng friends sibei hao lian... can bully ppl??? Come on leh... real ah lian and ah beng not as pathetic as you la... at least they won't go and queue for cheap stuff. They fight because you stare at them not because you squeezed with them in a Q okie. Stupid donkey.

Na Beh... Ppl queuing up, minding their own business she also buay siong. If you dun want to get into squeezy situations like that, go back home and fuck the sofa la. If you wanna queue, STFU and queue!

At this point of time, I was still minding my own business so I continued to listen to their crappy nonsense. Please... I din eavesdrop. Their intention was to let others hear them so their conversation was easily overheard by ppl around them.

Those girls were still happily acting ah lian, not knowing a retired Ah Beng's wife who can turn into a chao Ah Lian anytime, was standing right in front of them.

Just then, one of the girls' mother came. The mother has got a pair of fugly looking phoenix eyes. Those kind that see already want to beat her up for no reasons that kind, you know... KNN... that woman sibei KL.

If you could remember, that 2 nonsense girls were standing behind me then. I dunno how they managed to do it but the moment the mother appeared, they were in front of me liao... meaning what??? They cut Q la. They din cut my Q. They took a turn and cut a China man's Q instead.

Ppl who know me well will know that I have a dislike for PRC but this time round, I actually stood up for that China man. Goes to show how fucking bitchy these 3 stupid females were.

When the China man told them to Q up in Chinese, the mother bitch actually asked him to talk to her in English!!!

CCB!!! This is what I called educated Singaporean bitch. You know how to speak English so what??? Bully ppl who obviously know little English. Why dun you speak in Mandarin??? You are a Chinese and dunno how to speak Mandarin??? Fuckup bitch. Cut ppl's Q still have the cheeks to raise her voice... cauz!!!

Note: I was still maintaining my silence but within me, a volcano was about to erupt!

These 3 females obviously cared less for the China man and started swopping their places. The mother bitch climbed over the line barrier to join in the Q while the 2 young bitches climbed out.

I know the 2 young bitches were not ah lians from the start but I couldn't believe my eyes when I finally got to see the whole view of them. They were the most la... in their P6 or Sec 1 level. They have those guai guai innocent look with spectacles and neat hair. They are those kind that teachers like and can easily be prefects one la and you would never believe those words came from them.

So... looks can be deceiving!

Bcos of my buay siongness, I stared hard at them and guess what??? They still dared to stare back and mumble in front of me.

At this very moment, the volcano within me erupted and the lava flowed non-stop.

I pointed my fingers at them and spoke like a machine gun. I can still remember my words vividly. Here goes Ting's scolding ppl session...

"Eh, you two not chao ah lian yet want to act ah lian is it??? Ppl cut your queue, you not happy. Say what if your friends are here sure beat the shit out of these ppl huh... then you cut ppl's queue can la huh??? You remember u behind me anot??? Want to be chao ah lian is it??? Want to beat ppl is it??? Wait for me to get my things and pay up then wait for me outside settle. I fight with you want? 1 vs 2 huh... want? So bloody no manners say ppl smelly... huh... act ah lian."

I dun remember me changing my breath when I said all these. The 2 young girls just stood there SPEECHLESS!

My point here is... dun act like an ah lian if you dun even look like one. If you are not an ah lian but look like one, I'll probably not scold you so harshly (looking for death meh). But if you are not an ah lian and dun look like one either then dun even try to act like one... PLEASE!!! Disgrace ah lian's reputation only!

Enough said about the 2 young girls. Now go to the old girl - the mother bitch.

The phoenix-eye mother was 2 persons in front of me. When she was at the counter, she argued relentlessly with the salesperson. Apparently, the salesperson did not want to sell her some things la... (Explanation: Stupid promotion. Want to offer ppl cheap things yet got so many restrictions)

Not wanting to give up, the bitchy mother went on and on with the salesperson jamming up the queue. The aunties behind me were all very buay siong and started whispering softly, commenting how the thick-skinned bitchy mother was wasting our time.

5 minutes passed and that bitch was still at the counter arguing her way through. I think the salesperson had enough of her and gave her what she wanted in the end. As if not enough, that bitch with 3 or 4 big plastic bag of rice cookers in her hands, turned around and stared at ppl with her pair of fugly phoenix eyes. (Really damn ugly - I forgot to mention her specs also damn fugly la... fugly is not even enough to describe this person.)

Sibei KNN bitch. Buay tahan... time for Ting to 'chu' pattern liao...

Ting: "Eh... Ppl dun want to give you then get out la. Stand down there jam ppl's queue, waste ppl's time."

Bitch: "I'm waiting for my things okie. The person asked me to wait."

Ting: "Ya ya ya... take and get out la."

Bitch: "I can't get out okie." (Cos she damn kiasu wat... buy 3 or 4 rice cookers dunno for wat)

Ting: "You can climb in and you cannot go out??? Climb out la."

Bitch: "Excuse me, I got queue one okie."

Ting: "Ya, I know. Your daughter queued for you wat. They climbed out like monkey then you climbed in like monkey also wat. So now you climb out la."

Bitch: "Hiyah you... dun be an ugly Singaporean la."

At this point of time, one auntie behind me shouted at the bitch.

Anonymous aunty: "You then ugly ar."

Ting: "Ya la. You are then the ugly Singaporean. Get out la. Waste ppl's time."

I sweared that bitch LL walked out with her daughter and friend.

Sibei KNN right??? What kind of parents brought up what kind of kids I tell you. This is one example... This bitch must have tons of experience bullying ppl and have never met ppl like me. Count themselves unlucky la.

Side track a bit...

I myself dunno how to teach my kids. Be fierce or not to be? To bully ppl or to be bullied? Me and Ah Long were constantly on this topic and our conclusion is "Don't bully and fight with others BUT if others beat you, be sure to return the favor by beating them doubly hard. If you can't win them, nvm. Come to Papa and Mama."

Hahahaha... Mafia family I know... I'm sorry... this world is harsh so I have to prepare my kids for it. Nonetheless, I will teach them basic manners. Very important. MANNERS!!!


Okie... Back to that pair of mother and daughter together with the friend. These 3 bitches obviously have no manners at all... thought those uncles and aunties quiet quiet then bully... threw insults at them and stared at them (Eyes beautiful still nvm... so damn ugly still constantly using them. My eyes were in so much pain when I stared at that old bitch).

Uncles and aunties did not want to quarrel with them because they were a civilized lot but it was wrongly interpreted by this pair of fugly mother and daughter as easy prey... Note: See my entry of 22 Sept 2009 on 人善被人欺. This is another classic example.

I always read about ugly Singaporeans on trains and stuff and am thinking how I will react if I am in that kind of situation. Now I know... I will react this way.

But then again, let me gently remind u that I am a very nice person in general. Only upon meeting a bitch will I transform myself into a bitch. Otherwise, I'm a damn good person.

Thank you very much!
Have a nice day!

Scrapbooking time
Wednesday, September 23, 2009

I haven't been uploading pictures of myself and my kids all bcos of a sicko out there.

Anyway, this entry will make her more jealous la... cos I'm artistically inclined... wahahahaha...

Here's some layouts I did while on maternity leave.

First Ashton's layout... and more to come
"Truely Fruity Fruity" with the Truly spelled wrongly...
But can't do anything with it cos I've glued it with my glossy accents (damn good adhesive).
This layout was done by my remaining papers.
I'm very pleased with the outcome.
Lovezzzz
I like this title...
"Just hanging around"
How appropriate!
This layout turned out okie bcos of the paper I used.
I like this pic so must do a layout for it... anyhow did this in one hour time.
I love this! Always wanted to do a STAR layout. Here it is.
I like this too. First time I use Hamblys.
I haven't finished this layout... wanted to add more words to the title but simply too lazy...
I used my long forgotten ribbons in this layout...
A new attempt for me.

End of entry. Hope you like it.

人善 被人欺
Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Some things happening around me which prompted me to post another blog entry in just a day's time.

To start off this entry, I have to quote examples and one classic example would be... MY BLOG!!!

As you all know, my blog was visited by some sicko who used different nicks to defame me and my loved ones sometime back.

Trying to be Miss Nicey, I ignored all the comments left. BUT my good intention was appreciated by that Little Miss Pea-Brainy in the wrong way. Thinking that I'm just someone who can be easily pushed over, she daringly posted more abusive comments on my blog.

Everything has its limit and lao niang's limit has far exceeded the tolerable level. In case you dunno, when lao niang's volcano decides to erupt, its lava can kill.

I dun have to continue the story because all of you know what happened next.

After my retaliation, Little Miss Pea-Brainy decided to back off and vanish into the thin air. There was nothing from this person since then.

*shrug*

So what's that supposed to mean?

Must be fierce then ppl scare la???
No fierce cannot la???
"Tan Per Tia" la (Skin want to feel pain - in Hokkien)???

The thing is... if I have provoked you in any ways or you buay siong me for whatever reasons, you can come and tell me face to face. We are born with a mouth not only to eat but to talk and communicate as well. Making yourself anonymous, hurling abuses at my loved ones just proves you are one jackass coward who only dares to do things behind your computer screen.

But worry not! You are not the only one.

Recently, someone by the name of Wood Marvin sent me a facebook friend request. Shortly after I approved the friend request, she wrote something like "So you know the bitch?? Why dun call and ask her to go die with her newborn son?" on my wall.

I was full of question marks, exclamation marks and whatever you have la... I tell you. For a split second, I thought this person was referring to Little Miss Pea-Brainy. But quite impossible la... how can my Little Miss Pea-Brainy has a kid of her own???

So I replied "Eh, who are you talking about ar?"

Thereafter, I clicked to check out the profile.

To my utmost surprise, this person had been making terrible comments about one of my friend. Apparently, this sicko set up the facebook account just to defame my friend. In order to get her message across to as many people as she could, she searched for all my friend's friends via facebook and leaves nonsensical comments on their walls.

Because I replied to her thread previously (stupid me), she replied me by leaving a link showing my friend's FB account.

I've heard a bit of happenings about this friend of mine and I decided to back away from this (since it's no business of mine). So I ignored the link sent.

Shortly, this Wood Marvin wrote on my wall again. This time, it said "So you know that bitch?"
Again, I ignored.

Then, she once again vandalised my wall by saying "Don't you know all her friends will be cursed as well?"

And that's when I started thinking if I should reply. Based on my previous experience, ignoring ain't a solution and so I replied.

I couldn't recall my exact wordings to her but my main point was asking her to fuck off la. What damn shyt was that to set up a fake account just to attack the friends of your enemy??? If she really that buay siong with my friend, go find her directly la. Siao eh...

I used some bombastic words to reply her cos I know her English damn bad la... so scare her a bit here and there ma...

GUESS WHAT???

Approximately half an hour after my reply, she deleted her fake FB account away!

DUH!?!?!? *eyes roll*

These are just two examples of cyber bullying.

I have more actually especially on road bullies but I lazy to elaborate further.

My point is...

Why is our world becoming so sick???
Why must we be fierce then ppl will start to leave us alone???
Ain't it supposed to be like respect others to gain respect???
Where's the care and share spirit???


So how am I supposed to teach my kids??? To be nice or to be fierce??? I think fierce better la... bully people rather than get bullied... wahahaha...